The Only Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs


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# The Only Dating Advice You Will Ever Need

## The Problem with Lists
When attracting a partner, we’ve all been taught to create lists of what we want in the person that we want to attract. These lists can be extensive, detailing qualities from intelligence to hobbies to physical attributes. However, the truth is that no one can perfectly match every item on our list. In fact, the last quality on many of these lists is often that the ideal partner doesn’t even exist.

## The Purpose of Relationships
Instead of focusing on finding someone who ticks off all the boxes on our list, we should consider why we are in a relationship in the first place. Relationships are not just about getting what we want, but about growing into who we are meant to become. They serve as a spiritual evolution training ground where we can learn and grow as individuals.

## The Story of a Client
One client struggled with the decision of whether to continue dating a man who didn’t meet all the criteria on her list. While he possessed many of the top qualities she was looking for, he lacked others such as a master’s degree or financial security. She was torn between staying and exploring the relationship or moving on to find someone who met all her requirements.

## The Advice
In this scenario, the client was reminded of a scene from the movie « Evan Almighty, » where God explains the purpose of opportunities in our lives. It’s not about finding someone who is perfect, but about embracing imperfections as opportunities for growth and acceptance. The client realized that true love and acceptance come from embracing someone fully, flaws and all, rather than seeking perfection.

## The Conclusion
Ultimately, the only dating advice you will ever need is to focus on growth, acceptance, and love in your relationships. Instead of seeking perfection, embrace imperfections as opportunities for personal development and connection. By approaching relationships with an open heart and mind, you can create a fulfilling and loving partnership.


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